Was the 38 year old Flight Attendant paid?
It got a lot of publicity like...
Feb. 16, 2007— Membership in the "mile-high" club never used to be seen as a warning sign of a clinical condition.
Yet, following the recent high-altitude antics of 44-year-old British actor Ralph Fiennes, some wonder whether the actor may be exhibiting the signs of compulsive sexual behavior.
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Last week, the star of "The English Patient" and "Schindler's List" was caught leaving the same airplane lavatory as a 38-year-old Qantas flight attendant during a long-haul flight, according to a report in the British paper The Sunday Telegraph.
But this naughty behavior is likely a far cry from clinical compulsion. Marian Dunn, director of the Human Sexuality Center of SUNY Downstate Medical Center, says that while certain actions may be seen as deviant, it is hard to tell whether it could be a symptom of sexual compulsion.
"It's a delicate line," she says. "Some of these things, such as having sex in a public place, are kind of bipolar in terms of the excitement factor."
And sexuality expert Don Dyson, a professor at the human sexuality program at Widener University in Chester, Pa., says Fiennes' fame could have much to do with the public's interpretation of his behavior.
"One of the things that is unfortunate when you are dealing with someone in the public eye is that as soon as news of a certain sexual behavior arises, people automatically take their personal value system and apply it to whomever that person may be," Dyson says.
"So, people say to themselves, 'would I do that?' If the answer is no, they automatically judge and say the person is sick, that they need professional help."
Sexual Compulsion Vs. Naughtiness
"Compulsive behaviors are those that generally interrupt or get in the way of daily function or relationships," Dyson says. "Some people practice compulsive eating behavior, gambling or alcohol consumption."
There are so many questions about Fiennes partner in the air. Was she still on the game? Working for the police? How many coincidences in thse two meeting like this?
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Travelling?
Sleepy?
Wanna play Wii?
It was a night, just like any other night...
Did you tell me to stay cool until after school?
Going down to the station? Got your suitcase in your hand...
Deal the cards, son, just deal the cards...
Call me...
I thought we could go to a film after the game...
Marianne Faithfull- As Tears Go By 1965
some cards...
Rods?
Rolling Stones- Angie
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What is going on in the music scene?
Cut the cards, Sharpie!
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Last Gasp Cafe 13...
I have GOT to lose weight...
Bob Dylan- Like a Rolling Stone 1966
SERIOUSLY, I HAVE to lose weight...
Requiem for Erika Ortiz :^: Broken Road
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Pink Floyd: The Mind's Eye
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Lady so Far :-: for Tyra Banks
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C.C.Catch - Backseat of your Cadillac
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Last Gasp Cafe 8
Good morning...
Jim Carrey - Standup Routine - Comedy Store (1996)
I've got this, like, really oily skin...
What was that?
Last Gasp Cafe 4...
Good deed done for the day... every day...like a roller coaster...
Last Gasp Cafe 15: Concert for Donnie Darko
I tried to lose weight in a New York minute and nearly got lost...
She read the cards slowly...
Last Gasp Cafe 2...
I went to bed with a book...
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Cheltenham is on...
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The Lady was talking to Tee about opportunities on the net...
but Throg was dreaming about a back rub...
Throgmorton woke up and thought about an ipod...
Colin for Mark...
Last card, Freddie, Last card...
Chickenman woke up thinking about Bob Greene and Oprah...
Rolling Stones, Gimme Shelter(Pop Go the Sixties) 1969
I thought about my business opportunities...don't count your money till the dealings done...
Sweet Miss Jay- Angelina Jolie...
I attended to what was left of the business and did my Sporting Index chores...
I was bored so I called my business advisor on Dialaphone...
she mentioned Zwinky...
I was like,lol, what about Zylom...
Rolling Stones- Sympathy for the devil. Live in Rio 2006
cards,money,cards,money...
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I told her about Bonprix, classy? well yes...
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skimming cards on the Riverboat?
Voip? for sure I said...
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take a chance on Coral?
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we played at the Red Casino...
we flew Siesta...
we met each other again on Yahoo Personal...
Dating?
just having fun on Gameplay actually...
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we got right into The Hedrons...
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you can buy these with a Post Office Credit Card she told me over lunch...
and in the afternoon we flew away on HLX...
I noticed that she wore Nikes...
we booked a lovely place to stay through Cottages...
Radio Story aka The Story Continues...
she looked stunning in her Contessa gear...
Deftones at Taste of Chaos - RX Queen w/ Street Drum Corp
a card up your sleeve, one in your cuff...
we listened in the dark to Beck...
she declared that she would vote for Hilary Clinton...
me, I want more of Mate-dating...
we discussed our bodies and Hoodia...
then she told me about another way to lose weight...
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me being more of a car person I clicked on Auto Loan...
Changing Chairs
she wanted money for other things so she clicked on Ocean Financial...
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Sweet Killer Love
thought about Global Travel...
and looking good the French way...
U2 and Mary J Blige- One, Madison Square Garden 10-8-05
we talked a little about a career in Criminal Justice...
but what really got us going was the thought of a Bahamas Cruise- the Anna Nicole Smith Tour? Well...
very last card...
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